Saturday, December 24, 2011

Camping

We went camping last Sunday and Monday for a night.  We were supposed to go for two nights but our car got halfway there and the water pump stopped working and everything got very hot.  So, we stopped where we were.  There was a big patch of rosella flowers (to make rosella jam) so we picked those for a while.  Then we locked up the car and went hiking up the nearby mountain.  The grass was very tall.  Jarrah spent most of the hike on Daddy's shoulders.  Amelie was a trooper and tromped through the grass.  

We got to the top of a little mountain which had quite a view over the surrounding mountains.    



We found leftovers from a cut down tree and Jarrah found a rock that she wanted to bring home. 
 The girls had to climb up every incline tree they came across and pretend to be riding a horse.  



We got back to the car finally after trudging through neck high grass for what seemed like forever.  We set up camp in a rice field and had a campfire (burning up the rice straw).  The owner of the field came by to see what we were up to and to make sure we didn't end up burning his roofing that was drying nearby.  Had a comfortable nights sleep on our mattresses in our tent!  Pretty fancy camping.  Amelie was the chief fire attendant.  Had a great view of the millions of stars in the sky through the skylight in our tent.

And that was day one of our campout.
I shall write more later.  I need to go and cook something sweet with passionfruit again!

Friday, December 23, 2011

Jarrah's little words

We went camping on the weekend.  Jarrah was on Ben's shoulders most of the time.  She told him she was her "cuddle pack" because she likes to have cuddles all the time.  Either that, or she said she had a "cuddle attack" a term we use regularly as she so often comes up to us and says "I need a cuddle."  Cuddly little thing.  I like the cuddle pack.

On the toilet just tonight, Ben was going to finish her up (i.e. wipe).  She said, "I need Mummy to wipe me because she's my owner."

Then earlier today, she had gone to the village for an outing with her best friend, Bong Na to her house - she wanted to go, and she hadn't been for so long (I got the afternoon - or a few hours at least - to myself).  Ben brought her home at about 4.30 pm.  She says to me, "I ate the things inside."  "Inside what?" I ask.  "I ate the things in the shells."  Ahhhh, she ate these little shell snacky things they like to eat here.  She doesn't realise we don't eat that stuff.  She liked them.  They know we don't eat pork... but I didn't think of the shells!  I shall have to leave instructions.

Happy Sabbath, Merry Christmas!

I was trying to put up some photos but the connection is too slow - i had even straightened them !  will try again later.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Passionfruit

We have lots of passionfruit.  It is growing up high in a tall tree.  We can't pick it.  The squirrels can.  And when the ripe ones drop to the ground the deer get them.  We have Ung (our helper) climb up the tree and make them fall and gather them off the ground.  Well, we have about 50 of them right now sitting on my counter.  I went through them and sorted the ones which had split on impact and removed the pulp last night.  This afternoon, I made three things with them - Passionfruit Butter (or curd), Passionfruit and Banana Jam (I also have a cage full of banana's which are getting overripe!) and straight Passionfruit Jam.  The problem is my jams never congeal.  We'll see how this one goes.  I didn't have the patience to do the plate in the fridge test.  So... I wish you all could have some and I wish some professional jam makers could coach me better!

We are gearing up for Christmas.  I made some Christmas bunting and we have 25 flags with numbers on them - each with a little activity to do for each day.  We decorated our Christmas "bush" yesterday.  I still need to reorganise our wiring so that we can plug in the lights.  We made a wreath and have that hanging in our window.  It has some crane feathers, made of vines and bamboo.  Ben won't let me harvest any peacock feathers even though they would be very very beautiful.  The male peacock is almost in full feather and is strutting around. He is quite beautiful.  I shall post some pictures when I get around to it.

It is getting cold now, 18 degrees last night.  Need to go and get a shower before we freeze... I shall have to boil water.

Love Sharyn

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Facts of Life

Jarrah is learning her reproductive facts via Amelie.  She was talking to Ben tonight:

"I'm having a baby filly"

How are you having a baby filly?

"The daddy horse is helping.  Now I've had it and I'm keeping it safe from the grizzly bear."

Ben's Foot

Ben's feet have had an interesting past.  In 1994, he was shot by some renegade soldiers while on his motorbike.  He first noticed blood on his neck from a shot that grazed his adam's apple.  Realising he was in trouble, and that the soldiers blocking the road were not friendly, he started swerving across the road.  Somehow, a bullet shot from the right went through the wheel and hit is left foot, entering and exiting.  He made it to the next village and was eventually taken to the hospital (after giving them $20 for fuel).  He was medivaced to Bangkok the next day and survived.  His foot is better except for a hole which dries up from his constant thong wearing habit.

Next, he fell down a well in 1998.  From about 6 metres.  Landing mostly on his feet.  Somehow he lived through this.  He fell because he had blasted the well and a pocket of the fumes trapped in a rock cavity overcame him and he blacked out.  He survived that without any broken bones.  There was gravel embedded in his wound and he couldn't walk for quite a while.

This doesn't really count, but in 2003, we were riding on his motorbike and a dog who was being chased ran into our path.  We hit the dog.  The dog died.  Ben had a huge gash on his right knee.  We went to the local doctor who cleaned it up and stitched it.  That didn't work too well and being infected, we headed down again to Phnom Penh who sent us to Bangkok to a proper hospital.  Ten days and three surgeries later (to clean out the infection and lots of sand, cow manure and other stuff), and IV antibiotics, we came back home, repaired yet again.

Then, we have a hiatus of almost 7 years.  2010.  Ben builds a climbing wall at Jombok Haos.  A nice pretty wall.  And since we didn't have proper handgrips, a volunteer makes a whole bunch of grips out of wood.  The wall is finished at about 5.30pm.  Ben decides to try it out, bouldering low, at about a meter and a half above ground.. therefore with no ropes attached to his body.  He hits one of the grips not bolted in tightly, it swings around causing him to fall, hitting the single block left on the ground with his left foot, spraining it or worse.  Taking forever to heal.  He must have torn some ligaments or something.  That is better mostly now.

His feet have bunions.  Big, ugly bunions.  And lately, they have been causing some pain.  Or at least the right foot.  He can't hike!  And that is a problem!! So he finally decides to go into the doctors here and see if they can do anything about it.  We have been to this one private clinic here whose doctors are all from the Children's Surgical Hospital, a charity hospital that does some amazing things.  It is run by this Irish Orthapedic Surgeon, so Ben goes into this hospital to see what they can do.  He lines up behind a guy whose spine is all skewed this way and that, and a girl with all sorts of other serious problems.  If you go there on any morning, there are all sorts of serious cases waiting for attention.  They kindly look at Ben's foot, take x-rays.  The Irish doctor says he hasn't done any bunions for 30 years but could probably work something out.  He is scheduled for a surgery at the private clinic (whose profits go to the charity hospital) in October.  So we come down in November.  He meets up with the Khmer surgeon, Jim the Irishman and a visiting American pediatric spinal surgeon.  Jim is the only one who has ever done a bunion before and that was a while back.  They joke that they will watch how to do the surgery on youtube to see how it is done.  So, Thursday, Ben gets his bunion cut off and his bone cut to straighten the big toe on his right foot.  All was going well.  He has a removable boot cast which is great.

So the other day, he goes back to Phnom Penh for the month-post checkup.  He sees the doctor and he recommends keeping the cast on for another month.  As he is returning to ADRA from the clinic on a motorbike (it is peak hour traffic) he comes up next to a big black car.  A girl drives right in front of him, coming in from the front of the car (she is on the wrong side of the road) - and Ben hit her straight on.  He does not have his cast boot on at this time.  He manages to keep the bike upright, and the only part of his body that is injured, is his little toe.  One the same foot as his bunion surgery.  So, being Ben, he just comes home the next morning.  He does take the effort to get an x-ray taken in Kompong Thom on the way home but he doesn't have the time to wait for the developing.  The other day, one of our staff (who was also getting x-rays for her motorbike wreck) picked up his x-ray.  The doctor looks at it and tells her that there is a screw in his foot (obviously, from the bunion surgery) and doesn't notice that the little toe is also broken.  So, it is broken, not straight either.  He keeps hitting it, the latest was last night on his computer case that was left on the floor.  So, maybe after 15 days it still hasn't healed back up.  We'll go tomorrow to the doctor in Phnom Penh to see what's up!
And that is the story of Ben's foot (or feet, or legs actually).  I can write about his head later.
Love Sharyn.

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Thanksgiving


This has been our first thanksgiving that we have celebrated as a family at our home.  Normally, we just let the day go by but this year, we thought we should start making memories and do something.



Ben promised me that he would get us a chicken for me to roast on Thanksgiving but they must have heard and all avoided the traps today.  This was the easiest poultry that we could find however I wasn't allowed to roast him.
   

Sorry these pictures are on the side again.  I need to fix the direction before I upload and I forgot and there doesn't appear to be a tool to set them straight.  And they took so long to upload.  We made thanks turkeys and everyone wrote their thankfulnesses on the feathers.  Jarrah was too busy eating the tofu (in lieu of the turkey) to worry about being thankful.  She did say she was thankful for God, for TVP and for the Amalous (animals).  She has this tasty TVP she is addicted to at the moment and likes them dry.  Lucky we only have a little bit of it so when we are out we are out.


I cooked roast potatoes which turned out OK, roast pumpkin which was too slow and mostly didn't make the meal (I burnt some which I tried to cook on the stove and the stuff in the oven was OK, but not done in time), and string beans with fried tofu as the protein!  And a pumpkin pie of course.  Which was OK.  Pastry needs work though.  It is hard to make without butter.  Then I had leftover pumpkin puree so I have about 40 muffin /cookies which are "interesting."

So, that was our thanksgiving, it was a good day.. mostly.  Amelie did something naughty (threw something at a boy) and so we made her write lines - 100!  "I must not throw things at other people") so she said she didn't have a very happy thanksgiving.. sadly!

That is all for now.  I will end now. Bye.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Cowgirls

We need to get Amelie and Jarrah a couple of horses.  Today, Sunday, Amelie was very happy because she didn't have any school.  So, the two proceeded to turn our house into stables and walked around riding their toy horses (barbie horse sized). This is what they do everyday and I am always having to drag Amelie away from their horseplay.  They both have a lassoo, cowboy hats and boots.  The dogs usually get roped into being their horses and Jarrah gets very upset when they escape from their stables or if they get untied (they are OFTEN tied up - poor dogs, they are very patient).

Jarrah loves Amelie.  She cries when Amelie goes off to school.  She is sad when Amelie can't play with her.  It is nice that they play together so well most of the time.  Amelie calls Jarrah "J." Not sure if that will stick but it is cute.

Jarrah is also our assigned gracesayer.  Everytime we ask whose turn is it for grace, she points to herself and says me.  Her current grace is:

" Dear Jesus,
thank you for the nice day,
please help Amelie's cough to get better,
please bless our food,
Amen."

She was asking for help until just the other day, and now says it all herself.

Just a minute ago, Lolly, our peacock who should be up in the trees right now as it is dark, jumped up on the table next to me and stood on Aunty Ann's book.  He tore a page!  Sorry Aunty Ann.  I was trying really hard to keep the book nice (it is the Ben Carson book if you are wondering.. really really sorry!)

Amelie just made some oatmeal cookies almost all by herself.  They last batch burned because the timer wasn't set right but they are yummy.  And I just made some eggplant pickle.  Four bottles!!  Not sure what I will do with it all as it isn't that good.  Maybe it isn't too bad.  We'll see. The eggplant were these volunteer round eggplant, small, that we had in our garden and just harvested them all to put in some other stuff.  They are very seedy.  So, that is done.  Not sure if I need to seal the bottles or not.  They are very vinegary and oily.  Maybe we can eat them before they go bad.

Anyway, those are my musings for the evening.
Love from me.